Growing up choices.

yesterday i took my son for the whole weekend, just him and me, "yes Mr luvable has a son". it was very daunting for me to think i can spend 3 whole days with him . i have been left in charge of babies before but not my own, usually a day or two, and always know i can give them back when the going get tough. i so wanted to go out this weekend , had the money as well but was just amazed by my choice and at the end of the day was proud of myself and did not regret even a little bit.
Growing up i have witnessed a lot of child abuse and cruelty, and even had a tester from a step mother once who was unfortunately kicked to kingdom come by my grandma. Damn the lady could fight like a man. after that the young lady left and i felt sorry for her. With this in mind i have written this blog with the intention of wanting to know how you can tell if another woman would love your kid as her own, i don't have a problem with this because i have been in these situations and always find myself attached to ex`s kids after break up. How can you tell if they are not going to abuse your child, because with me looking at my child innocent ,i can only imagine wat i can do to anyone messing up with my angel.

i hope all people who end up falling in relationships with children already there would learn to love the kids as their own. Also saying that the adults should also take time to understand the ins and outs of every story because some of the children a like the devils agents because they can say anything to get all the attention. i will leave you with some questions,: How do u tell if it is the right person?, How do u tell if they will get along with your offspring's?, how can you tell when your kids make up stories about the one you love? and most of all how can you balance all of these problems?


Hope president Obama will find time to talk to Bob and Morgan so as to save my beloved Zimbabwe like Shonavixen suggested.