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london, london, United Kingdom
i love my life ,full of ups and downs yet i wake up every morning looking forward to the next challenge, am always a leader in my life never a follower , like u know, most people dont even know where they a going but still want to lead u .

Sunday, 9 November 2008

Growing up choices.

yesterday i took my son for the whole weekend, just him and me, "yes Mr luvable has a son". it was very daunting for me to think i can spend 3 whole days with him . i have been left in charge of babies before but not my own, usually a day or two, and always know i can give them back when the going get tough. i so wanted to go out this weekend , had the money as well but was just amazed by my choice and at the end of the day was proud of myself and did not regret even a little bit.
Growing up i have witnessed a lot of child abuse and cruelty, and even had a tester from a step mother once who was unfortunately kicked to kingdom come by my grandma. Damn the lady could fight like a man. after that the young lady left and i felt sorry for her. With this in mind i have written this blog with the intention of wanting to know how you can tell if another woman would love your kid as her own, i don't have a problem with this because i have been in these situations and always find myself attached to ex`s kids after break up. How can you tell if they are not going to abuse your child, because with me looking at my child innocent ,i can only imagine wat i can do to anyone messing up with my angel.

i hope all people who end up falling in relationships with children already there would learn to love the kids as their own. Also saying that the adults should also take time to understand the ins and outs of every story because some of the children a like the devils agents because they can say anything to get all the attention. i will leave you with some questions,: How do u tell if it is the right person?, How do u tell if they will get along with your offspring's?, how can you tell when your kids make up stories about the one you love? and most of all how can you balance all of these problems?


Hope president Obama will find time to talk to Bob and Morgan so as to save my beloved Zimbabwe like Shonavixen suggested.

Saturday, 1 November 2008

gals do it too

with my boyz we always brag ,on how many i have "done" especially if it was not the girlfriend, partner, spouse, or anything serious. to my surprise there are some girls and so called ladies out there who a doing the same. My message to u is please dont coz it aint cool at all, no man in his right mind in this day and age is goin to be serious abt u once they know u have done all his frienz.

And to you bitch , u know ,i will never ever do u, even if whe had to populate the whole world to save the humankind,

Thursday, 9 October 2008

the" whys "of datin life

why is it when girls are after u there is always 3 at least, and when u looking for one ,its like looking for water in the sahara?

why is it the girls we like the most are not available all the time?

why is it the one who like u always fuff around up2 the point u a fed up and move on, and always make u make the stupid decisions in yo life when they realised what they had let go?

why is it the one u expected to say no always says yes and u end up juss taggin along?

why is it the one u ask out juss for fun end up allover u ?